Body-language and nonverbal communication

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Creativity is the child`s brain

The world-famous painter Pablo Picasso was convinced that every child is an artist. So he trusts in life, he trusts in mankind but he didn’t trust in growing up in a specific environment. He didn’t trust in education.

He adds that the problem is staying an artist when you grow up. I think his idea is worth to be thought about. Especially in times of bigger stress on children in education at school and when they grow up in their Job.

When do we I ask myself return to nature like education, to creativity

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which is part of childhood and the brain of childhood. Why dont we trust in our children and the vibrant self-regulation of development. 🙂

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Emotionally strong people

Sometimes people want to be emotionally strong, sometime they have to be. But what does this mean to be emotionally strong and how can you judge a person`s internal state of feeling by what you see on the outside. Often people think emotionally strong people are quiet, never complain or don’t show too much emotional Expression. In contrast to this any signs of emotional ‘leakage’ (i.e., expressing emotional distress in any way) or tears (especially in men), is often viewed as evidence the person has difficulties coping and is emotionally weak.

This often is not correct and…………..

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Idioms for facial expression

Facial expression is part of body language and nonverbal communication. You can describe facial expression, you can analyse facial expression and you can look at the common language spoken by people in the street to identify facial expression. Here are some English idioms for facial expression which, to be honest, are very much to the point and can make you smile about it.

http://languagelearningbase.com/86069/english-idioms-for-facial-expressions

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Stock market crash or when money kills you

The stock market in China is eroding. People loose ever so much money in ever such a short period of time.

Nearly a quarter of investors say that the value of their investments has fallen by more than 50 percent since the beginning of the year amid falling stock prices. 23.8 percent of the 42,000 people polled by sina said that they “had suffered a loss of over 50 percent and dare not check their accounts”.

Investors and bankers feared already since some months that this would happen soon in China. It is a stock bubble which seems to explode.

Its not my interest to analyse this. I am not the expert for this. But I am an expert for human relationship and communication. Let me tell you first a very personal story. When we …………..

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Bikini foreigners in China

It’s reported via the news in China that foreigners in Shanghai went sun-bathing during the last weeks before the big rain started. A lot of photos were presented, photos of foreigners enjoying the sun in the park and wearing bikinis. Apparently this is news-worthy in China!

For us in western countries it’s normal. It’s just a good habit to feel comfortable, to react to the sun and to enjoy outside in the fresh air. This is a very big contrast to China.

A contrast at least ……….

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Look to be a complete person

The CEO and chairman Lloyd Blankfein, chairman of Goldman Sachs Bank talked about his opinion on career, achievement and human relationship to students at the Tsing Hua University in Beijing. He pointed out that it’s very important to be a specialist in one’s own field, to have a good competence, a good education. He also pointed out that it’s even more necessary to be a complete person, the kind of person that other people want to deal with.

He talked to the students days after the big Chinese examination called Gaokao. Insofar the message….

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Wedding – most expansive day in life….and then???

May is traditionally the month for weddings. Month #5 is so popular because 5 means richness, wealth, long life, peace and health.

Within the last ten years the average number of weddings has increased for about 60%. More and more Chinese want to marry officially, in the way as it’s practised in western countries. This of course also supports family as a social value. More and more people ………..

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Honor and / or shame

“Eight Honors and Eight Shames” are some basic value in China, like it’s honorable to love the motherland, to service people, to adore science, to work diligently, to help each other, to be honest, to obey the law and rules, and to strive hard for what you want. In contrast, it’s shameful to jeopardize the motherland, to betray people, to be ignorant, to indulge in creature comforts, to harm others to benefit oneself, to forget friendship for profit, to disobey the law and rules, and to be extravagant and dissipated.

Just returned from China and again I think about these honors and shames. How is this incorporated in daily life? How do People think about it and live with it?

I am now back home from China. One week in Shanghai and one week in Beijing. Two interesting Workshops (among others at Tongji University Shanghai) and some lectures (among others Academy of Sciences Beijing) on the issues of “Body psychotherapy” and “Body and personality”.
There is ever such a big interest in this perspective in China. And of course I will return. 🙂

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Introduction to Body-Psychotherapy BPT (Bioenergetics)

对一种身体心理疗法的介绍(生物能分析治疗)

 Dipl. rer. soc. Ulrich Sollmann

BPT is a unique and effective psychotherapy that helps resolve emotional issues by engaging the wisdom of the body in a safe and caring relationship with a trained therapist.

生物能分析治疗 (下文简称BPT)是一种独特的有效的心理治疗方法,它通过结合身体的智慧通过和一个受训治疗师之间安全关照的关系解决情绪的议题。 BPT is a way to understand the person and the body on the energetic level. The more energy we have, the better we feel and express ourselves. Energy means the interplay of charge and discharge, of breathing, feeling, movement and relating to the other person and life in general. The more energy I have, the better I feel and the better I can develop in life.

BPT是一种从能量水平理解人和身体的一种方法。我们拥有越多的能量,我们就能越好的感受和表达我们自己。能量一般是意味着补充和释放,呼吸,感觉,运动,和其他人,和生活等的交互。我拥有越多的能量,我的感受就会更好,我在生活中的发展也会更好。………

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Brain, the Self and the Person

One of the most fascinating characteristics of human nature is our ability to experience ourselves as a self and person. However, because we have no direct access to our brain in experience, the link between brain and self, and thus between mental and neural states, remains unclear. Recent imaging studies suggest …………

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