Body-language and nonverbal communication

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From the Dragon to the Panda

A very interesting new book unfortunately only written in German. Ist on the issue of leadership, teaching and learning.

Das Buch, um es vorweg gleich zu sagen, besticht durch die breite Erfahrung der Autorin und durch die unspektakuläre Art und Weise der Darstellung relevanter Praxisbereiche, Praxisfragen und Empfehlungen.

Es gibt inzwischen viele Bücher, die sich mit der Frage beschäftigen, worauf man als Westler in China achten sollte, wenn man denn beruflich unterwegs ist. Die meisten der Bücher bewegen sich ……..auf der Ebene von Rat und Tippgeber. Das Buch von Ott-Göbel hingegen spiegelt die eigenen Erfahrungen der Autorin. Aber nicht nur das. Sie lässt ausgewiesene Kenner des kulturellen Kontextes selbst zu Wort kommen, so geschehen durch eine Verhandlungsexpertin, einen Waldorf-Pionier, einen Management-Dozenten, einen Bildungsexperten, einen Psychotherapeuten und einen Manager.

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The impact of the two child-policy on social Dynamics in China

The Chinese government changes its political strategy of family-planning. From now on a family is allowed to have two children.

Of course this is a big change and many families are happy about this. And yet there are four big challenges which have to be faced in China.

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Body language of Chinese celebrities and politicians

last August we made some videos on the body language of Chinese celebrities as well as of famous and world wide important politicians like Obama, Merkel and Putin. They will be presented on Internet TV. So if you like have a look. 🙂

And if you like give some feedback and a link in social media like wechat or so. Thanks.

http://www.wtoutiao.com/p/X99tS2.html

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Never disobey or: surrender to submission

Parents usually love their children and children love their parents. Of course there are different ways of showing and expressing your love.

And yet something happened some weeks ago in China I really could not understand. It’s sad that young students make a Kowtow to their parents for their first day of primary school. It’s sad that the children were made to show their gratitude towards their parents and teachers in ways that struck some observers as shameful and old-fashioned.

Well there are differences…..      

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Fan Bingbing

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

范冰冰——一个集美丽,激情和勇气于一身的舞之精

毋庸置疑,范冰冰是一个美女。她有着独特的魅力,在和她相处的时你还可以感受到她的大方开朗。

一方面她是腼腆而羞涩的,就如你刚想要去注意,那迷人的微笑就马上不好意思的隐了起来一般。她常常微微的低着头,就那样看着对方,你会觉得她在关注着你,你透过这种姿态和眼神也可以感受到她的那种自信。…..

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First signs of depression

Depression is a social and personal impact often caused by social change. Mostly people realize when they really fall into depression and need professional help.

And yet most of the people are not aware of the first signs of depression. They ignore e.g. sadness and moodiness, anxiety and nervousness, decreased energy, poor concentration and memory and so on. These symptoms are part of daily life and basically …….

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Fan Bingbing`s body language

Ist Fan Bingbing`s birthday today. So a very special present to her: my analysis of her body language. Though unfortunately only in German I hope that someone will translate it into English and Chinese. 🙂 So if someone wants to join my special present please feel free and contact me. As soon as I get the translation I will post it of course. My email is: sollmann@sollmann-online.de

So just enjoy:……………..

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Have no fear of perfection. You’ll never reach it

Another world-famous painter and artist Salvador Dali is also wellknown for his funny beard. He was a master of fantasy and realizations of dreams. He in a paradox citation was convinced: “Have no fear of perfection. You’ll never reach it”.

It’s calming to know what he said and it’s true: You can never reach perfection and the more to try to the more you loose your own creativity, your own emotional life and its surprising expression.

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My first video (lecture) on body language in Chinese

Finally it is done. My first Video on Body language and nonverbal communication is online in China, in Chinese and English. More of course will follow inthe future.

The video gives a first sight into the topic, not in an academic way but based on scientific research and my very long experience related to “East meets West”. Just have a look and communicate if you like.  Of course if you have further questions please let me know.

And of course enjoy. 🙂

http://www.iepsy.com/course/icgy2qrj

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Encourage your creativity: together

The French painter and artist Henri Matisse puts his experience into very few words like “creativity takes courage”. He was convinced about creativity to be part of mankind and he’s also convinced that you can live your own creativity. He also knows out of experience and out of watching people that it takes a big courage to really live your own creativity, to show up as a creative person.

Courage, couriosity and creativity are main parts of the dynamics of life. You embody them where ever you are and who ever you are. Following them you create your life and you show up with yourself. By that you can be experienced as a single Person as a personality among all the others who surround you. Among all the others who create your environment.

Share this with the others and you create your world. And by that you respect the world in general. 🙂

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