Body-language and nonverbal communication

Archive
society

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“Die Fremde” or “When we leave”

The film shows very clearly and blunt that at the end it is very difficult to find out who in fact is the stranger, who has to integrate, and what integration really means. To bring it to the point: integration always is a field of inevitable conflicting priorities. And at the end you get the impression that everybody is a stranger.

2010 was the premier of this really embarrassing German movie film. The main issue is to show how important the basic, human right for self-determination, self definition is. This of course includes the human right for women for bodily autonomy.

The film shows that the woman wants to follow her autonomy and to be part of her family. She fights for both. And she experiences how difficult but also how dangerous this fight is. Just by the steady risk of violence.

It is fight up to the desperate experience of complete exhaustion. An experience which catches everybody in the film, everybody in the family. Finally there is no winner. Everybody fades, everybody loses the, everybody finally gets lost in desperation.

The film shows in a melodramatic way, very intensely and directly, that everybody breaks down under the enormous social and special cultural pressure.

 

Here is the trailer with English subtitles so that you can a first impression.

http://www.metacafe.com/watch/5464481/when_we_leave_die_fremde_trailer_with_english_subtitles/

Here is part one of the film. Via the following link you will find the other parts.

Some information on the intercultural issue of the film in German

http://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Die_Fremde_(2010)

Read More

 

 

 

 

 

 

Body language in Europe

well I wrote a lot about body language and gestures in China or what we think about it.

Here are some information about the other perspective: what it is like to communicate nonverbally in Europe or Northern America. Just have a look and get an impression. Within the next weeks I will write more about this perspective.

 http://h2g2.com/approved_entry/A427277

http://www.reidsguides.com/t_cm/t_cm_gestures.html

Read More

Be aware of …………

“A country which does not guard or protect foreigners (or strangers), will fall or die soon”

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 – 1832)

One of the most important, famous German poet and writer  brings it to the point!!!!!!

Read More

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

To drink a toast to somebody

Last week I talked to a manager who had been busy in China for quite a long time. He told me a very personal experience which as he underlined had a deeper meaning for him which he had not yet puzzled out.

Each time when there was a business dinner everybody tried to drink a toast to  him and his German colleagues. He felt this to be an important gesture towards the foreign guests. As there were only some Germans and many Chinese often it was not easy for each Chinese and for each table to have enough time to drink a toast. Perhaps you can imagine this kind of social stress in the restaurant where he had been.

Well, judged from a German point of view, one could say, that ……………..

Read More

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Basics in Chinese Body language

“Body language forms a crucial part of everyday communication. Consciously or unconsciously we tend to use different parts of our body to convey certain messages across. It is a fact that body language is not used likely in all the parts of the world. The use and the meaning of certain body languages can vary widely across different cultures. Body language used in one culture could be altogether different from that used in other culture. The body language that maybe considered appropriate in one place might turn out to be offensive in the other. For instance, there are some sharp contrast between the body language used in the West and those used in the East.

We can find exclusive use of body language and hand gestures in China. China…………..

Read More

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

love vs. politics

An American “hero” and an integer director of the CIA becomes dangerous for US politicians and some kind of political inner circle. This political and social affair mirrors the bigoted US attitude towards love, security and politics. Up to the exposure of this love affair Petraeus`image was stable, clean and integer. Her image also. People, society and politicians trusted him.

From one moment to the other all this broke down. The image broke down. And people now believe that one could no longer trust this ( the same) man.

In other, former cases like this, politicians decided in another way. Not this kind of publicity and no big media hype. Not this kind of hysterical prosecuting. Not this prompt demand towards Petraeus to quit his job at once.

What is the matter now, today, in this case? Why do offcials ……………..

Read More
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Herbert Rosendorfer – Letters back to ancient China
“The novel Letters back to ancient China (1983) was a bestseller in Germany and translated into many languages. The Chinese mandarin Kao-Tai is transported in a time machine from the Middle Kingdom of around 1000 AD to the Bavarian capital Munich today. He is not quick to recover from the shocks of a historical and cultural trip. In letters to his friend in ancient China he describes the bizarreness of modern life with the bignoses in Min-chen………
Read More

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nonverbal communication in Thailand

The traditional Thai greeting is called the wai. In general, the younger person greets first, by placing the palms together at chest level and bowing slightly. If someone wai to you, it is polite to wai back.

In giving or receiving gifts or passing things, Thais ordinarily use the right hand. They place the left hand under the right elbow, and bow the head slightly.

Do not touch …………….

Read More

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nourished by the same river

Li Xiaoshan, director, said, “When a family, a character or a story is the focus of an episode, we do not ignore the general background in which their story is taking place. In documentary production, we tend to follow a natural progression. For example, when the subject is a river, we’d shoot from its source to its outlet into the sea. But this time, we broke away from such linear thinking, and came up with a multi-dimensional framework. The series has a more eclectic structure.”

so, have a good look here via this link at part three of this overwhelming and inspiring documentary

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L3JVQS3xJc4&feature=share

 and read some good comment http://www.cctv.com/program/cultureexpress/20080419/100522.shtml

or in German

http://presse.phoenix.de/dokumentationen/2011/03/20110309_Leben_am_Mekong/20110310_Leben_am_Mekong_3_4.phtml

 

 

Read More

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mr. Muo’s Travelling Couch

“……………Tonight, as this Chinese train pursues its inexorable journey, neither the hardness of the seat nor the press of his fellow passengers seems to bother him. Nor is he distracted by the alluring passenger in oversized sunglasses (a showbiz wannabe travelling incognito, perhaps?), sitting by the opposite window beside a young couple and across from three elderly women. She is graciously tilting her head in his direction while resting her elbow on the folding table. But no indeed, neither train nor intriguing stranger can offer our Mr. Muo such transport as he finds this moment in words and writing, the language of a distant land and especially of his dreams, which he records and analyses with …………………..

Read More