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Seasickness is not good for business

One can observe intercultural integration in various social fields just like buying a cruiser. Rich Chinese can afford such boats more and more. They also have a special look on the architecture of these boats. This architecture has of course to mirror special Chinese aspects of being related to one another (guanxi). Here some examples:

  • Chinese prefer very big and very representative boats. Many of them also prefer a landing place for helicopters. J Price doesn’t matter
  • There has to be a hard top because Chinese women like to have ……….
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Sexuality and satisfaction in virtuality

So called connected pleasure givers will be sold from the end of April on in China. It is another kind of artificial or instrumentalized way to find sexual satisfaction (alone, on one`own). It is a new way to give oneself and / or the other one, that means a partner or any other virtual person, sexual satisfaction without being together. Together means: both are not at the same place, in the same room but are connected via internet. They are both part of a virtual world.

They say that long distance relationships do not last not because the couples fall out of love, but because they miss ………..

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Dogs, dogs, dogs….only dogs?

A Chinese man saw many many many dogs on a lorry in the province Jiangsu. It was meant to bring them to a slaughterhouse to kill them.

He felt a pity with these dogs and offered 8000 US dollars to set all these dogs free. Afterwards someone took this wonderful picture of those “hugging dogs and man”.

Well one could say, this man wants to save animals. One could say he felt a pity and saved them.

One thing is true and convincing when you look at the photo: all of them enjoy to be together with each other. I not very often saw just a joyful scene. And in some way there is also some kind of a little envy in me. An envy which opens up one´s own heart and brings back hope and trust, if it should be hidden somewhere, somehow.

Do you remember the last time you had that feeling? 🙂

http://www.examiner.com/article/introducing-ping-an-a-fu-stray-animal-rescue

 

 

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Think about it

There is no school equal to a decent home and no teacher equal to a virtuous parent.

~ Gandhi

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Parents in the U.S. and China both lie to their kids, study says
 

„If you don`t come with me now, then I will leave you here alone“.

This is the most popular lie in USA and China, to make children to behave in a “proper” way, that means in the way the parents want them to behave. Some parents, so is the result of some new scientific study, even threat their children with their own death.

A client of mine told me some day another way how her mother tried to gain complete power on her daughter when she was young. She wanted her daughter not to lie. Thus she tried to obtain this power on her daughter in a cruel way.

With complete success as the daughter ……….

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“Rich is……….

the one who is satisfied and happy”

Aristoteles

(Greek Philosopher 384-322 before Christ)

….I often think of this when regarding the relationship of many people in China and the Western world towards money and materialism in their daily life. I think of how much this characterizes our life and the way how people relate to each other.

I at the same time realize that many especially young people care for their hope, not to be too materialistic, not to be ruled by money.

And I also realize how hard but also how pleasant this job is. 🙂

foto by http://www.flickr.com/photos/thetypecloud/

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Dogmatism versus flowers where I live

It should not be intimidated by the dogmatist,
and the right partner should try to see the flowers,
that grow on our land still can.
We have not finished discussion culture
but should not shy away from the work of cultivating.
This should develop thoughts.
Therefore, no thought be condemned.
We should teach each other (be), not pedantic,
but as one of my Jewish friends once said,
how to learn Jewish dances.
We can develop our thoughts here ever
and we should not be intimidated by the rights holders,
to even be dogmatist.
The place
where we are right
At the place where we are right,
will never grow flowers
in the spring.
The place where we are right,
is hard and trampled
like a court.
Doubt and love but
lighten up the world
like a mole, like a plow.
And a whisper is heard
at the place where the house stood,
which was destroyed.
Yehuda Amichai:
* 3 May 1924 in Würzburg; † 22 September 2000 in Jerusalem

photo: http://fc08.deviantart.net/fs71/i/2010/245/3/f/flower_in_a_desert_by_tsitra360-d2xw8mg.jpg

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……..was women`s day. 🙂

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Virtual Dance Hype

Gangnam Style is out. Harlem Shake is in. Within the last weeks the Gangnam Style Dance captures the virtual world. More than 1Billion youtube clicks are an over all impressive proof.

Again within some weeks another virtual dance style captures media: Harlem Shake, which derives from a dance style dating back to the middle of 1980. Millions of youtube clicks back this success and…………

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Sweatening

how do you distinguish cold sweat (fear sweat) and sweat from too hard working?

I think the difference is of important relevance concerning the present working situation in Europe but also in China:

too much, too fast, too much overloaded, too unclear, too ….too…

In Germany we have to deal with burn-out, depression and burn-out. In china there is already a high percentage of depression deriving from the working situation also.

So distinguishing the two different kinds of sweat can help to realitze if you or your friend is working too much and afraid to slow down (because of fear) or if he really likes hard work and enjoys. That mewans is motivated and not burded out.

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