The impact of the two child-policy on social Dynamics in China
The Chinese government changes its political strategy of family-planning. From now on a family is allowed to have two children.
Of course this is a big change and many families are happy about this. And yet there are four big challenges which have to be faced in China.
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范冰冰——一个集美丽，激情和勇气于一身的舞之精灵
毋庸置疑，范冰冰是一个美女。她有着独特的魅力，在和她相处的时你还可以感受到她的大方开朗。
一方面她是腼腆而羞涩的，就如你刚想要去注意，那迷人的微笑就马上不好意思的隐了起来一般。她常常微微的低着头，就那样看着对方，你会觉得她在关注着你，你透过这种姿态和眼神也可以感受到她的那种自信。…..
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First signs of depression
Depression is a social and personal impact often caused by social change. Mostly people realize when they really fall into depression and need professional help.
And yet most of the people are not aware of the first signs of depression. They ignore e.g. sadness and moodiness, anxiety and nervousness, decreased energy, poor concentration and memory and so on. These symptoms are part of daily life and basically …….
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Fan Bingbing`s body language
Ist Fan Bingbing`s birthday today. So a very special present to her: my analysis of her body language. Though unfortunately only in German I hope that someone will translate it into English and Chinese. 🙂 So if someone wants to join my special present please feel free and contact me. As soon as I get the translation I will post it of course. My email is: sollmann@sollmann-online.de
So just enjoy:……………..
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Creativity is the child`s brain
The world-famous painter Pablo Picasso was convinced that every child is an artist. So he trusts in life, he trusts in mankind but he didn’t trust in growing up in a specific environment. He didn’t trust in education.
He adds that the problem is staying an artist when you grow up. I think his idea is worth to be thought about. Especially in times of bigger stress on children in education at school and when they grow up in their Job.
When do we I ask myself return to nature like education, to creativity
which is part of childhood and the brain of childhood. Why dont we trust in our children and the vibrant self-regulation of development. 🙂
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Emotionally strong people
Sometimes people want to be emotionally strong, sometime they have to be. But what does this mean to be emotionally strong and how can you judge a person`s internal state of feeling by what you see on the outside. Often people think emotionally strong people are quiet, never complain or don’t show too much emotional Expression. In contrast to this any signs of emotional ‘leakage’ (i.e., expressing emotional distress in any way) or tears (especially in men), is often viewed as evidence the person has difficulties coping and is emotionally weak.
This often is not correct and…………..
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Stock market crash or when money kills you
The stock market in China is eroding. People loose ever so much money in ever such a short period of time.
Nearly a quarter of investors say that the value of their investments has fallen by more than 50 percent since the beginning of the year amid falling stock prices. 23.8 percent of the 42,000 people polled by sina said that they “had suffered a loss of over 50 percent and dare not check their accounts”.
Investors and bankers feared already since some months that this would happen soon in China. It is a stock bubble which seems to explode.
Its not my interest to analyse this. I am not the expert for this. But I am an expert for human relationship and communication. Let me tell you first a very personal story. When we …………..
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Look to be a complete person
The CEO and chairman Lloyd Blankfein, chairman of Goldman Sachs Bank talked about his opinion on career, achievement and human relationship to students at the Tsing Hua University in Beijing. He pointed out that it’s very important to be a specialist in one’s own field, to have a good competence, a good education. He also pointed out that it’s even more necessary to be a complete person, the kind of person that other people want to deal with.
He talked to the students days after the big Chinese examination called Gaokao. Insofar the message….
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Wedding – most expansive day in life….and then???
May is traditionally the month for weddings. Month #5 is so popular because 5 means richness, wealth, long life, peace and health.
Within the last ten years the average number of weddings has increased for about 60%. More and more Chinese want to marry officially, in the way as it’s practised in western countries. This of course also supports family as a social value. More and more people ………..
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Introduction to Body-Psychotherapy BPT (Bioenergetics)
对一种身体–心理疗法的介绍（生物能分析治疗）
Dipl. rer. soc. Ulrich Sollmann
BPT is a unique and effective psychotherapy that helps resolve emotional issues by engaging the wisdom of the body in a safe and caring relationship with a trained therapist.
生物能分析治疗 （下文简称BPT）是一种独特的有效的心理治疗方法，它通过结合身体的智慧通过和一个受训治疗师之间安全关照的关系解决情绪的议题。 BPT is a way to understand the person and the body on the energetic level. The more energy we have, the better we feel and express ourselves. Energy means the interplay of charge and discharge, of breathing, feeling, movement and relating to the other person and life in general. The more energy I have, the better I feel and the better I can develop in life.
BPT是一种从能量水平理解人和身体的一种方法。我们拥有越多的能量，我们就能越好的感受和表达我们自己。能量一般是意味着补充和释放，呼吸，感觉，运动，和其他人，和生活等的交互。我拥有越多的能量，我的感受就会更好，我在生活中的发展也会更好。………
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