Function of the eyes (an embodyed story -part 8 -)
Eyes are the key:
- The key in first sight contact
- The key as it is a visual contact
- The key which helps to distinguish: YOU and ME
- The key which proofs that…………….
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Is there a difference between you and me? (An embodyed story -7-)
of course I could relax besides this young lady. I felt quite comfortable lying there when my attention always moved back to these faces. The puppets touched each other and gave the impression ” we belong together”. We are here and we know what we want. We are aware of YOU being here but we do NOT address you. We don`t want you to become important by ………
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Expression and impression (an embodyed story part 5)
Being caught by some detail I just had to look around. Had to stand still, move my head from one side to the other, facing a whole new world of creatures which I had never seen before. Creatures deriving from a continent of relevance which was and probably still is strange to me. Again I was fascinated by this world of creatures who started talking to me in a mother tongue which was familiar to me though not ………..
Read MoreTo smell and to taste a new culture is to meet yourself
Some weeks ago I talked to a German manager and sinologist, who had worked in China for a couple of years. His first visit to China was about thirty years ago. Perfect in reading and writing, really well-experienced in relating to Chinese people, he knew, what he was talking about.
We talked about relating to Chinese people as well as to people from other cultures. Both we were convinced of a big difference in intercultural communication.
On the one hand it is almost too simple to doubt on this fact. On the other hand many people seem not to know the essence of the following message:
When you learn a language, when ……….
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Sex in ancient China…….
was meant:
- to feel sexual enjoyment
- to experience health development
- and for reproduction.
There is a very old tradition in understanding sexuality like this and to practice certain sexual skills.
When talking to young Chinese I often ……….
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Woman flirting with her hair
Here is one more little information about I will call it „hair-gestures“ of women. It is quite, as probably most of you will know, important for the relationship between men and women. 😉
Here are four quite important gestures which are familiar to people in the western hemisphere:
- A woman softly touches her hair and throws it back. This means “Hello, I want and need your awareness”
- A woman is talking to you and puts her hair behind her ear. She shows that she feels very good and familiar in this situation, together with you.
- If a woman tears her hair (out) and…………….
The body in psychotherapy 5 (Therapists`feeling the client`s body)
Somatic Psychotherapy
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