Sexuality and satisfaction in virtuality
So called connected pleasure givers will be sold from the end of April on in China. It is another kind of artificial or instrumentalized way to find sexual satisfaction (alone, on one`own). It is a new way to give oneself and / or the other one, that means a partner or any other virtual person, sexual satisfaction without being together. Together means: both are not at the same place, in the same room but are connected via internet. They are both part of a virtual world.
They say that long distance relationships do not last not because the couples fall out of love, but because they miss ………..
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Dogs, dogs, dogs….only dogs?
A Chinese man saw many many many dogs on a lorry in the province Jiangsu. It was meant to bring them to a slaughterhouse to kill them.
He felt a pity with these dogs and offered 8000 US dollars to set all these dogs free. Afterwards someone took this wonderful picture of those “hugging dogs and man”.
Well one could say, this man wants to save animals. One could say he felt a pity and saved them.
One thing is true and convincing when you look at the photo: all of them enjoy to be together with each other. I not very often saw just a joyful scene. And in some way there is also some kind of a little envy in me. An envy which opens up one´s own heart and brings back hope and trust, if it should be hidden somewhere, somehow.
Do you remember the last time you had that feeling? 🙂
http://www.examiner.com/article/introducing-ping-an-a-fu-stray-animal-rescue
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Think about it
There is no school equal to a decent home and no teacher equal to a virtuous parent.
~ Gandhi
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Dogmatism versus flowers where I live
It should not be intimidated by the dogmatist,
and the right partner should try to see the flowers,
that grow on our land still can.
We have not finished discussion culture
but should not shy away from the work of cultivating.
This should develop thoughts.
Therefore, no thought be condemned.
We should teach each other (be), not pedantic,
but as one of my Jewish friends once said,
how to learn Jewish dances.
We can develop our thoughts here ever
and we should not be intimidated by the rights holders,
to even be dogmatist.
The place
where we are right
At the place where we are right,
will never grow flowers
in the spring.
The place where we are right,
is hard and trampled
like a court.
Doubt and love but
lighten up the world
like a mole, like a plow.
And a whisper is heard
at the place where the house stood,
which was destroyed.
Yehuda Amichai:
* 3 May 1924 in Würzburg; † 22 September 2000 in Jerusalem
photo: http://fc08.deviantart.net/fs71/i/2010/245/3/f/flower_in_a_desert_by_tsitra360-d2xw8mg.jpg
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